Posted by Sandy X on August 11, 1998 at 07:12:28:
In Reply to: Re: The other parties hurt too. posted by Kevin on August 10, 1998 at 20:55:41:
My husband never blamed me for anything. Never came to think it was "OK". I'm sure their are many more people like that too.
I think for some people it takes a while for the realization to kick in.
If you go to www.affairs-help.com, you will read people who are on the other side of the fence and are trying to live with what they have done and are hoping their spouse will never find out.
My husband, even now, still wonders if I will leave because of what he done. When two people were raised with the strong belief in God and what is "Right and Wrong", you have a more difficult time dealing with this (no matter if you were the betrayed party or Guilty party).
Sandy x